Lets start with my story, I was brought up in the middle of no where where there were no real professionals apart from professional idiots, professional alcoholics, professional criticisers, professional takers, the positive law of attraction did not exist one bit.

 

I went to a school where my mum thought it would be ok to send me to the boys boarding school but to be the first girl in the school and to be a singleton in amongst the boys hence to say I was absolutely miserable until a few girls turned up then it was ok.

 

Later down the line more girls turned up,  lets just say they were snooty and bitchy because they thought they were something special but I am happy to say most of them years later got pregnant and were on drugs by the time they had reached 20! Maybe this was Karma…

 

For some reason, I was brought up to think this was normal so just accepted this until one day I met a guy and found a way to escape, so I wrote down my pros and cons of leaving and lets just say there were no cons! Apart from what I was about to get into!

 

So the journey began to find a professional  job and finally be happy, I worked my way up the financial ladder to finally end up in a job being an internal Accountant for a property investment company managing over £250,000,000 worth of assets, my biggest buzz was cashing a cheque for £50,000,000.

 

I actually loved this job and they were amazing people treating us to champagne and meals on our lunch breaks and I was really proud of myself achieving this knowledge and becoming a professional.

 

I found out surprisingly that I was pregnant when I was 30 and couldn’t wait to tell my boyfriend of 10 years but   unfortunately he was not happy about this and disappeared for a week, no where to be seen.

 

When he returned he got drunk most nights and tried punching me in the stomach which a friend saw and defended me.

 

I went on to have a beautiful healthy baby but something had changed in our relationship which included him taking drugs, alcohol & violence. I knew I had to get us out of this situation and move away from him so we could feel safe again.

I moved back to my routes and continued bringing up my daughter as a single parent, he would come back some weekends when he felt like it but at least I wasn’t on my guard 24/7 but just at the weekends.

 

Every weekend the violence got gradually worse until the day came when my daughter said to me “when are you going to get rid of him?” and this was the final warning, I could not save this relationship it was unsavable, I had tried but I just couldn’t deal with the stress anymore, he was going to give me cancer if I didn’t end it.

 

So I packed up all my valuables, including my computer, passports  put them in my car and hid the car so he could not destroy anything, I also had 2 male friends that were there should things turn nasty. I didn’t get the police involved as this would have escalated his behaviour (not in a good way!)

 

I also gave his gun to my dad to put in his gun cabinet should he resort to this option!

 

I told him to give me the key to the house and leave, he went straight away  to smash up my computer but it wasn’t there, he was gone within 3 hours and I could finally breathe again…

 

I have been single for a year and want it to stay that way, but we are much happier now xxx

 

Even through my life experiences, I have never lost my confidence even through the manipulation and dishonesty and I want to bring up a confident teenager now! And I would like to help you too…

 

Big Love & Hugs

 

Vikki